December 31, 2002

Today is new year eve, have you make a list of what you have completed in 2002 and what you want to achieve for 2003 ?

My Goal has achieve in 2002::
1) Obtain a Degree
2) Manage to maintain my car
3) Get a new job in travel industry
4) Obtain a Basic Abacus User Cert.

My Wish in 2003 are::
1) My father's health will get better
2) Smoke less, drink less
3) Lose weight for 5 more kg.
4) Change my car audio system.
5) Learn Sound mixing
6) Pick up new skill to rise my value in employment market.

that's all for the moment......dun ask me why got no plan for kids...heeeeee

December 30, 2002

New Year Eve is coming...wonder anyone celebrate ?

December 27, 2002

I read a story which is very touching and wanted to share with all of you.

This is very sweet and sad and will make you think - A good reminder : "Take time to appreciate what you have now."

On the last day before Christmas, I hurried to go to the supermarket to buy the remaining of the gifts I didn't manage to buy earlier. When I saw all the people there, I started to complain to myself, "It is going to take forever here and I still have so many other places to go.

Christmas really is getting more and more annoying every year. How I wish I could just lie down, go to sleep and only wake up after it..." Nonetheless, made my way to the toy section, and there I started to curse the prices, wondering if after all kids really play with such expensive toys. While looking in the toy section, I noticed a small boy of about 5 years old, pressing a doll against his chest.
He kept on touching the hair of the doll and looked so sad. I wondered who was this doll for. Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him, "Granny, are you sure I don't have enough money?" The old lady replied, "You know that you don't have enough money to buy this doll, my dear." Then she asked him to stay here for 5 minutes while she went to look around. She left quickly.
The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand. Finally, I started to walk towards him and I asked him who did he want to give this
doll to. "It is the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for this Christmas, he was so sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her." I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus will bring it to her, after all, and not to worry. But he replied to me sadly. "No, Santa Claus cannot go where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mother so that she can give it to her when she goes there." His eyes were so sad while saying this. "My sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mummy will also go to see God very soon, so I thought that she could carry the doll with her to give it to my sister." My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said, "I told daddy to tell mummy not to go yet. I asked him to wait until I came back from the supermarket." Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He then told me, "I also want mummy to take this photo with her so that she will not forget me." "I love my mummy and I wish she doesn't have to leave me but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister."
Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly. I quickly reached for my wallet and took a few notes and said to the boy,
"What if we checked again, just in case if you have enough money?" "Ok," he said. "I hope that I have enough."

I added some of my money to his without him seeing and we started to count it. There was enough for the doll, and even some spare money. The little boy said, "Thank you God for giving me enough money." Then he looked at me and added, "I asked yesterday before I slept for God to make sure I have enough money to buy this doll so that mummy can give it to my sister. He heard me." I also wanted to have enough money to buy a white rose for my mummy, but I didn't dare ask God too much, but he gave me
enough to buy the doll and the white rose." You know, my mummy loves white rose." A few minutes later, the old lady came again and I left with my trolley.

I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started. I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind. Then I remembered a local newspaper article 2 days ago, which mentioned of a drunk man in a truck who hit a car where there was one young lady and a little girl. The little girl died right away, and the mother was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the plug on the life-assisting machine, because the young lady would not be able to get out of the coma.

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the newspaper that the young lady had passed away. I couldn't stop myself and went to buy a bunch of white roses and I went to the mortuary where the body of the young woman was exposed for people to see. She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest. I left the place crying, feeling that my life had been changed forever. The love that this little boy had for his mother and his sister is still, to that day, hard to imagine. And in a fraction of a second, a drunk man had taken all this away from him.

"FRIENDS ARE LIKE ANGELS, WHO HELP US FLY WHEN OUR WINGS HAVE FORGOTTEN HOW TO FLY."



December 26, 2002

Very sian ...even thought Christmas is just over, NYE is around the corner and yet the hurt (from office politics) is still there.

no mood to blog today as I saw some of the idiot sales people walk pass.


December 24, 2002

Merry Christmas to everyone



I'm so surprise when I reach my office this morning, so happy to see many presents on my table. Althought it cannot be compare with other gals in the office, but I already happy to see so many people giving me blessing and wishing for this day.

I'm so touch that my elder sister Ivy has bought me a present as well.
Thanks dear "C" for the lighter that you bought, it suits me so well.
Thanks dear dear "J" bought me for the GoldLion Belt and wallet.

Thanks God all of them and may lots of blessing be with them.

December 19, 2002

Joke of the day

A secretary complained about her boss.... She says "My boss is so sex-crazed. Everytime he comes into the office, I must do the LAPTOP position, and then the DESKTOP position, followed by the SPREADSHEET format. I must LOAD UP his SOFT DISK into a HARD DISK, so that he can INSERT in my C DRIVE and then the A DRIVE. Then he'll ask me to EJECT his SOFTWARE outside my C DRIVE so that he is VIRUS FREE. Then he changes his mind and decide to ENTER, ENTER, ENTER the whole day till he is in MICROSOFT stage.

December 18, 2002

HOW WOMEN SPEAK...
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"FINE"
This is the word we use at the end of any argument that we feel we are
right about but need to shut you up. NEVER use fine to describe how a
woman looks. This will cause you to have one of those arguments.


"FIVE MINUTES"
This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your
football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so I feel
that it's an even trade.


"NOTHING"
This means something and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is
usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you
inside out, upside down, and backwards. 'Nothing" usually signifies an
argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with the word "Fine."


"GO AHEAD" (with raised eyebrows)
This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over
"Nothing" and will end with the word "Fine."


"GO AHEAD" (normal eyebrows)
This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care." You
will get a raised eyebrow "Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by
"Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes"
when she cools off.


"LOUD SIGH"
This is not actually a word, but is still often a verbal statement very
misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot at
that moment and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and
arguing with you over "Nothing."


"SOFT SIGH"
Again, not a word, but a verbal statement. "Soft Sighs" are one of the
few things that some men actually understand. She is content. Your best
bet is to not move or breathe and she will ! stay content.


"THAT'S OKAY"
This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can say to a
man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before
paying you retribution for what ever it is that you have done. "That's
Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and used in conjunction with a
raised eyebrow "Go Ahead." At some point in the near future when she has
plotted and planned, you are going to be in some mighty big trouble.


"PLEASE DO"
This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the
chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing
whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance to tell the
truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay."


"THANKS"
A woman is thanking you. Do not faint, just say you're welcome.


"THANKS A LOT"
This is much different than "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot"
when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have hurt
her in some callous way, and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be
careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only
tell you "Nothing."

December 17, 2002

Christmas is coming very soon, wonder how should I celebrate my Christmas...cause Singapore is too small and got no place to run around. Maybe Mount Fabour ??? Forget it, I duno how to drive there.

Just borrow a Nikon CoolPix 2500 and taken some picture of my desk and office and of course her.
Will snap some picture of the pub which I visit very often and free advertise for them.

Be back soon.

December 05, 2002

Too busy with my renovation work until today....still haven't got time to write down my minds and thoughts.

Be back soon.